Sunday, May 9, 2010

Happy Mother's Day!

It is Mother's Day and I woke to wonderful gifts from my daughters, an illustrated book and a beautiful mobile of ribbon, Shrink Art, beads and fabric flower petals. The gift of creativity is very much intact. My best gift is the progress we've made in our fights against Lyme.

Lyme disease is tough. The fatigue, joint pain, headaches, cognitive and neurological challenges wear you down. For a mother with Lyme, the challenge can be especially emotional if you're not able to do all you would like. From reading to playing, cleaning to cooking dinner, all have taken a hit at one time or another; most daily. And for those of us who have passed this disease unknowingly to our children in utero, it can be especially heart wrenching as we watch our children face the challenges of this disease on their own. From their tenuous beginnings as preemies, to their own daily physical, cognitive and emotional challenges, it breaks our hearts. I know. Both of our daughters have been fighting this disease since before they were born. It is all they've ever known.

A doctor once said, "We would never wish something like this on a child, but kids that endure grow to be pretty special adults."

We have seen this in our daughters' perseverance, compassion and zest for life. Just last week, our youngest strapped on her roller blades and helmet, grabbed a bag of dog treats and our Border Collie's harness, tossed a treat down the hall and held on for the ride of her life! As we rescued the dog, we applauded her tenacity, her love of life.

And so today, we celebrate all of the amazing women who have touched our lives and the lives of our children. Our inspirations each and every day! Wishing you much love and joy this Mother's Day!


Casey said...

Happy Mother's day to you all!

Lyme is real said...

Thank you, Casey! Happy Mother's Day to you, too!

Alix said...

Thanks for the great mother's day post! Hard to see someone else going through the same push-pull of Lyme and motherhood, but I'm glad to know I'm not alone.

Kim said...

Thanks for posting this. I hoping that my significant lack of "helicopter parenting" means that my boys will be well adjusted. I hope. But there's many days I fear they're not getting enough. Sigh.

Lyme is real said...

You are amazing women and mothers! We get through as best we can, stronger because we have each other. I'm so grateful for each of you!